“Discover How To Stop Your Constant Fears, Doubts, Worries and Destructive Relationship Killing Jealousy Behaviors…
…BEFORE Your Partner Finally Says ‘Enough’ and Walks Out The Door and Never Comes Back…”
You’re here because either you or your partner is jealous and this jealousy is painful enough in your relationship and life that you’re finally ready to do something about it.
We’re relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and you may not know us yet, but we’re experts on helping people like you overcome jealousy before it ruins your relationship and life.
We created this website because we want to help you get rid of the jealousy that’s causing so much pain, misery and uncertainty between you and the most important person in your life.
In order to best help you do that, we’d like to ask you a few questions about jealousy and your relationship.
This will only take a moment and don’t worry…
These questions and your answers are for your eyes ONLY as a tool for discovering just how BIG the jealousy problem is for you in your relationship and what your next steps are for overcoming it.
So, take a deep breath, relax and answer the following questions as openly and honestly as you can…
If you answered YES to any of the above questions, then your jealousy is much bigger than what would be considered “normal.”
The “green-eyed monster” called jealousy can and will destroy your relationship or marriage if you don’t do something to stop it in its tracks.
If you’re at the end of your rope because of jealousy, hang on a minute because…
There IS a way to eliminate the shame, insecurity, and self- doubt.
You CAN overcome the jealousy, get your life back and enjoy the healthy relationships you deserve… And it’s easier than you think!
How do we know this?
In the early days of our relationship–long before we were highly successful Breakthrough Relationship Coaches–we had our own struggles with jealousy.
We’ve been there, maybe exactly where you are right now. In fact, things got so bad, we didn’t think our relationship would survive. It tore us apart– made us question ourselves, we felt unloved and it caused a great deal of unnecessary turmoil.
We don’t know how jealousy comes up for you in your relationship or marriage– but in our particular situation jealousy came at the worst possible moments…
We would be out at a restaurant, a social gathering, a party or a get-together at a friend’s house and Susie would see Otto talking to someone else–especially another beautiful woman–and her whole body would start to tense up, her heart would start beating faster (and not in a good way), her mind would start racing and then she’d start seeing and imagining the worst possible scenarios in her mind.
It wasn’t that Susie didn’t trust Otto.
It’s just that these jealous thoughts were like scenes from a bad movie that she couldn’t get out of her mind and the worst part is that they would seemingly come out of nowhere and just “blind” her to the point that this was all she could think about and focus on.
Her jealous thoughts were enough to drive any sane person crazy.
When these thoughts would come up, she would start saying things to herself like… “He’s going to leave me for someone else–someone younger, more beautiful, more fun, sexier, more outgoing, more ‘spiritual’.”
You name it and she thought it– and as we just said a moment ago–it very well could have totally ruined our love and relationship.
Jealousy was so intense that neither one of us could really be who we were and this was awful.
Otto was always trying to reign himself in and not really be his normal, outgoing self when we would go out.
He didn’t feel like he could talk to as many people as he would like in social situations out of fear of how Susie might react.
Because of the tension that the jealousy created for the two of us, we also weren’t nearly as connected as we would have liked and our intimacy suffered.
Communication was strained, we both felt like we were always walking on eggshells and there was even an underlying tension when we had sex (after all, it’s hard to have deep connected, passionate sex with someone who is always accusing you of doing something that you’re NOT doing.)
We could have split over this but the good news is, we didn’t…
We found a solution for these painful, agonizing feelings!
We discovered the exact steps to take to save our relationship and remove the JEALOUSY out of our lives forever. And you can too!
Now at parties, get-togethers with friends or social gatherings, Otto is the one coming to find Susie — wanting to be with her, and she’s able to have a perfectly fine time NOT watching what he’s doing or keeping tabs on him.
As Otto says–“This makes ME want to seek her out and be with her more than anyone at any party we are at… totally changing our dynamic at social gatherings completely.”
We’re two people (like you) who’ve lived through this. We struggled with the apprehension, heart-break and uncertainty in our relationship.
But you know what?
Our relationship used to be filled with jealousy and now we have a close, connected and incredibly passionate relationship that we wouldn’t trade for anything.
We ended our miserable nightmare and so can you.
Since you’re reading this, we believe you’re already much smarter than most people and ready to get rid of the unhappiness in your life.
Many people would have already clicked off this site.
But you’re still here, because you hear that small voice – the one inside that whispers to you every single day. The same one that keeps you awake at night saying…
You were meant to have a life FREE Of JEALOUSY!
Why Jealousy isn’t your fault
Maybe you’ve been in other relationships where you’ve had a partner or spouse who’s lied to you or cheated on you.
Maybe you’ve seen firsthand relationships (maybe your parents) or marriages of people you know, love and care about be totally destroyed because of lies, cheating or an affair or infidelity.
Regardless of whether any of those things are true for you…
If you want to know why being jealous is such a huge issue in relationship today, you don’t have to look any further than your favorite media outlet.
We are all being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books, magazines, newspapers, emails, music, and on the internet with the message that everyone lies and cheats–especially in committed relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media outlets are filled with real and made- up stories of infidelity and betrayal.
If you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of us have), it’s only natural that you’re going to start putting a question mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You might even be tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that “everybody’s” doing it and it’s somehow acceptable.
Because of all of these messages (plus maybe what happened in your past), it’s no wonder you have all these jealous thoughts that you can’t seem control!
So, what can you do to get these jealous thoughts and feelings under control?
Here’s a technique we want to teach you right now that can help you stop jealous thoughts in 3 minutes or less.
The “3-Minute Jealous
We created this technique to help our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients get some “instant relief” whenever those jealous thoughts rear their ugly heads (which is usually at the worst possible moments).
We call it…
The “3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper.”
You’ll want to use this when your jealous thoughts are creeping in and running your life–and you feel out of control.
Remember, jealous thoughts are a habit and they can be changed.
Here’s how to do the “3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper”…
1st– SIT– Sit in a quiet place. (The bathroom will do).
2. SETTLE– Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing your breath into your feet so that you feel grounded and connected to the earth. Feel yourself slowing down and your breathing deepen. (Maybe 30 seconds)
3. AWARENESS– Come into awareness of your jealous thoughts in this moment. (What exactly are you thinking? You might even want to ask yourself… “I’m thinking that_______).” And then fill in the blank with what you’re thinking. No judging!
4. ASK– Ask yourself if you know your jealous thoughts to be true–absolutely true. What evidence do you have to support these thoughts? Whether you think your thoughts are true or not true, bring your attention to your heart or gut area and
5. ALLOW– Allow your sensations to be there without judging them and breathe into that area of the body. (If you feel heavy in your heart area, breathe into that heaviness until the sensation softens. If you feel a “knot” in your gut area, breathe into that knot until it starts to loosen.)
6. REPLACE– Replace the jealous “movie” running in your head to one that is more in alignment with what you want in your life–because the reality is that both outcomes are possible.
Here’s why the “3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper” works and an example of how to use it…
If you know that your jealous thoughts aren’t true but you see yourself being cheated on or your partner leaving you anyway, replace that movie with a favorite memory from the past with your partner or special moments between the two of you that are happening in the present or could happen in the future.
Here’s why this incredibly simple technique of “running a new or different movie” in your mind when jealous thoughts come up is so amazing…
It’s an absolute scientifically-proven fact that your brain cannot tell the difference between seeing something that’s real and seeing something that you only imagine in your mind’s eye.
Why else does your mouth actually salivate when you imagine yourself cutting open a fresh lemon and opening your mouth to take a big bite of it?
It’s your body’s reaction to something that you only imagined.
The same is true of jealousy.
When you imagine your partner wanting to be with someone else (or whatever keeps you up at night), you are running and re-running that movie until it becomes very real to you.
If you want to change this movie that is manufactured in your brain, our jealous thought stopper can actually dissolve it–and help you to stop being jealous.
The truth is…jealousy is a habit and it’s a habit that can be broken.
For 21 days, every time your jealous thoughts come up, do this technique and you won’t believe how much ease you will begin to feel.
This is one of the techniques that Susie used to help her put an end to jealousy that was between us and we know it can help you too.
What if your jealous thoughts ARE true and cheating is really going on?
If you know there is truth to your suspicions, we still advise you to practice this technique.
Instead of your new “movie” being a favorite memory, you might see yourself taking your next step in an empowered way instead of continuing your jealous cycle.
This “3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper” is a great way to help you get some instant relief from your jealous thoughts.
You can do this as often as you like to get the relief you want and need but…
You may also be wondering…
What Else Can You Do To STOP Jealousy
If you’re serious about doing what it takes to stop jealousy in your relationship and life, you’re going to want to know about this…
We’ve just created a breakthrough new program that shows you exactly how to stop the insanity that jealousy creates in your relationship and life.
What’s in the “No More Jealousy” program and how can it help you start dissolving those jealous thoughts, feelings and sometimes out-of-control irrational behavior?
“No More Jealousy” is more than just a book or an ebook. It is a complete “soup-to-nuts” program for overcoming jealousy and restoring your relationship, as well as your sanity.
The “No More Jealousy” program includes a book and 6 audio recordings, as well as a special report on how to get free from jealousy in your close relationships, all tightly focused on helping you heal this painful situation you’re living with and create a love relationship that’s exactly what you want–free of the pain of jealousy.
To the best of our knowledge, there’s no other program available anywhere like “No More Jealousy.”
What’s great about this program is that it’s available in your choice of either an instantly downloadable format or you can have the program sent to your home or office anywhere in the world in an unmarked package.
You can start learning these incredible secrets and strategies for overcoming jealousy almost immediately after you let us know you want the program.
Here’s what you’re going to get in the package…
In Part 1… We introduce you to some new ways of looking at jealousy, help you understand what it really is, where it comes from and give you dozens of concrete ideas and strategies for letting those jealous feeling melt away like butter on a hot summer day.
Also in part one, we talk about where trust-building really starts. (This too will surprise you.)
In Part 2… This part of the guidebook is where we lay out our strategies for dealing with a true “jealousy emergency.”
After you’ve finished with this section of the book, you (and your partner) will know exactly what to do in tense, crisis- filled situations where jealousy has come up quickly or seemingly exploded out of no where and you need to know what to do and how to handle it.
Woven within the pages of this “No More Jealousy” guidebook are our personal stories, along with the questions and stories of others who gave us permission to use their words with the hope that their experiences would be helpful to you as you discover how to stop your jealousy and restore your relationship or marriage.
There are questions at the end of each chapter to help you examine your specific situation more closely and to give you more clarity about your situation and what you need to do in order to break free of the jealousy when it comes up.
Here’s what we cover on these recordings…
How to tell if this “No More Jealousy”
If ANY of the following statements are true for you–then “No More Jealousy” is definitely for you and you should definitely pick a copy of the program as soon as possible…
Say “YES” to any statements that apply to you…
If you said “YES” to any of the above statements–then jealousy and lack of trust are definitely issues for you.
We urge you to give yourself permission to say “YES” to you and make the decision to whip jealousy and banish it from your life forever.
We urge you to say “YES” to you so you can feel safe and comfortable even in social situations that have driven you crazy in the past.
Life is too short to be miserable for one moment longer.
All you have to do is be willing to invest a little bit of time, effort and energy into learning and practicing some new ideas and some new skills of self discovery and the rest is easy.
What makes this “No More Jealousy” program so much more effective than anything else that’s available for getting rid of jealousy?
We’ll start with making a true confession…
We’re not professional therapists, we’re relationship coaches and here’s why this is important to you…
There are plenty of resources out there including therapists, coaches, counselors, ministers, priests, rabbis etc. who are trying to offer relationship help to people who need it and we think that’s great. But almost none of them are focusing on the issue of jealousy.
We don’t know whether the issue of jealousy is just too painful to deal with, it’s too messy of a subject or people just just don’t get the training in it to help others.
The fact is…
We’re two of the select few people in the world who specialize in helping people like you overcome jealousy.
It’s also a fact that some of the best trained therapists in the world regularly refer their therapy clients to our “No More Jealousy” program and to work with us on this issue.
We know how to help you solve this problem of jealousy because not only have we done it in our own lives but we’ve been studying this subject for over 9 years now and after spending thousands of hours (and a lot of money attending trainings and conferences) dissecting the issue of jealousy and relationships–now we’re considered to be experts on the subject.
You see, the painful truth is…
Back when we were first starting our relationship and jealousy was a major issue for us–we didn’t have the relationship skills we have now to work through painful issues like this one.
We tried all the usual methods to overcome our problems — we read self-help books, listened to counselors, talked with friends.
One thing we came to realize was…
Nobody addressed the REAL cause of jealousy!
Like many people, you might’ve thought “jealousy’s not my fault,” or other people may have told you “it’s all your fault,” “it’s all in your head” Or maybe you heard that you should “just let go” (of your feelings) and “get on with your life!”
How’s that going for you?
If you’re like us, you might have found that it didn’t work.
The reason it didn’t work is because…
These things that you may have thought or been led to believe don’t really solve anything. These are excuses or runaway thoughts that are keeping you stuck.
The real issue you’re dealing with is FEAR.
It doesn’t matter if these emotions are “real” or not…Until you examine, and begin to heal them, that bitter taste of jealousy and lack of trust will seep in again and again.
Now, you might be wondering…”Why hasn’t anyone ever told me this before?”
The sad truth is most people don’t know this, because the information simply wasn’t easily available…until now.
In fact, as you may have already found, most counselors just don’t know how to tackle this problem. Or, they think it’s too hard to overcome.
However, we’ve discovered simple steps you can take to help you stop the nasty feelings within seconds, stop despair from ruling your life, help you feel totally connected to your partner and get the love you really want…
Plus, we’ve made this easy…
One of the other big reasons that No More Jealousy works so well is because we give simple, easy to follow instructions.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the jealousy and trust challenges that come up for you in your relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe that this “No More Jealousy” program can and will change your life.
The question is…
Do you want jealousy, fear and doubt to rule your relationship and life?
Do you want to put an end to your jealousy nightmare right now?
If you’ve read this far, we’re thinking that you’re someone who really wants a whole lot more from your relationship than you have right now and you’re willing to be open to some new ideas to create something better.
Are we right?
We think so and here’s something really important to understand…
You’ve got no need to apologize for wanting a better life!
There’s absolutely no reason to be shy about going for what you want.
Because you deserve it!
Contrary to what the world wants you to believe, satisfying your desires is not selfish. You were born to be satisfied…not settling for a trampled-down version of existence heaped with feelings of disappointment.
If you’re finally ready to stop the jealousy that’s creating so much drama and havoc in your life right now, then here’s what we want you to do…
Order the “No More Jealousy” program now and start going through the information right away.
This program is the most complete course available anywhere on how to stop jealousy. Nothing has been held back.
This program gives you everything you need to stop your jealous behavior now before it sabotages your relationship completely and you lose your partner and the love you really want.
What Happens If You Don’t Get Your Copy of
Think about it…
If you don’t buy this program right now, nothing will change.
If you don’t get your copy of this program now, you’ll still be jealous.
You’ll still feel those waves of doubt about your partner AND you’ll still be constantly wondering what they’re doing, who they’re talking to and whether you’re about to lose them to someone else.
It’s also highly likely that if you don’t get control of your jealousy, YOU WILL lose your partner.
After all, no matter how much someone cares about you or loves you–there’s only so much a person can take.
Who would want to put up with all the constant drama, fighting, false accusations, defending themselves and worrying all the time about whether the next thing they say or do is going to put you over the edge again.
If you don’t get this jealousy problem handled right now it’s just going to keep coming up over and over until you do.
To make this an easy decision, we’ve priced “No More Jealousy” so affordably that you’ll be able to fit this into your budget with no problems.
You can order the complete “No More Jealousy” guidebook and audio program for only $39.95 for the downloadable version OR for only $69.95 (plus s&h) you can get BOTH the printed version of the guidebook and the audios on CD sent to you by mail to your home or office AND get instant access to the downloadable version of the book and audios as well.
Plus,if you order this “No More Jealousy” program we just described now, not only are we going to assume ALL the risk and give you a guarantee (we’ll describe it in a moment) but we’ll also include these incredible bonuses absolutely FREE…
“12 Proven Secrets”
These are the recordings of a live 90-minute teleseminar we conducted where we gave our answers to the 12 biggest, most important and most pressing questions that our web site visitors and newsletter subscribers like you had about how to create closer and more loving relationships.
These 12 questions are ones we hand picked from over 795 responses to a survey at our website. Of course, one of the 12 questions is about “how to overcome jealousy.”
These recordings currently sell for $34.95. We’ve included them here as a free digital bonus for buying this package.
“How to Get Free of Jealousy in Your Close Relationships” By Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks
This is a special report on eliminating jealousy by Drs. Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks. They are the best-selling Oprah experts and authors of the books “Conscious Loving,” “Conscious Living,” “Breathing Ecstasy” and far too many other books to mention here. This special digital report in .pdf format contains the master key to eliminating jealousy from your relationships and life. It’s a small report with just a few pages but this report alone is worth the price were asking for the “No More Jealousy” program. Value — Priceless
“Love Lessons” is a 56-page downloadable ebook that will give you dozens of powerful insights, tips, ideas and strategies for creating an outstanding relationship. This book is a distillation of many of the things that helped us to create the blissful relationship that we now enjoy. This e-book was originally a book that was a part of our “relationship toolkit.” Our relationship toolkit is now no longer available at any price. The value of this book would be $19.95 if it was available.
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“7 Keys to A Great Relationship”
This is a 20-page downloadable special report that we created after we were asked to do a presentation on the 7 things we considered to be most important in creating an outstanding relationship. Of course there are more than 7 things that go into making a great relationship. But, if you’re going to limit yourself to only 7 Keys–these would be a wonderful foundation to forming any relationship. The value of this special report is $7.
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No More Jealousy changed my life. It has given me tremendous freedom. Thank you for your great insight!
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We are trusting each other and not as much jealousy among us. Thanks.
Discovered 2 Big AH-HA’s That Helped My jealousy…”
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No More Jealousy Helped Me Handle My Fears & Insecurities…
Karen From Philadelphia, PA
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I found your work to be most helpful, and to the point without a lot of psycho-babble. Jealousy is a big issue in my life and on that I’ve changed thanks to your work in this area. I’d strongly recommend your work in all areas to anyone needing or feeling that they can benefit by attentive, personal advice from caring individuals such as the two of you.
Bob Barry from Wisconsin
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No More Jealousy was a very useful guide for me towards the healing process of my jealousy problems with my partner. No More Jealousy has helped to build up my self-esteem and self-worth…thanks for all the effort in putting together No More Jealousy.
No More Jealousyhelped me greatly with my jealousy issues. I now recognize my triggers and am learning the breathing exercises to calm myself down. The audios are worth every cent. When I feel weak, I just pop in the audio and immediately I feel so much better. It is really true, jealousy is a two-person problem, not one.
“You have saved my relationship…”
Hi Susie and/or Otto,
May I say that you have saved my relationship, I used to make false accusations, be jealous and get angry, though I would not know why, but listening to everything you two have said in your audio courses, I finally understand jealousy and why I am reacting like this. I have not finished reading the book or the audio courses, but my relationship is already improving.
Thank you so much. I am so grateful to you two, if it wasn’t for you, I wouldn’t know how to control my emotions.
And our relationship would’ve definitely ended, which would be terrible since we love each other so much.
I didn’t even know jealousy could be controlled, I thought it would always be inside of me…
Thanks again, you’re the best! Name withheld on request
Went From Feeling “Crazy” to “Calm…”
I thought I was going “crazy”, which was the worst part… and the jealousy alienated my husband. He clammed up and stopped telling me certain things or would lie and change “Brenda” to “Bob” in his stories so I wouldn’t be jealous.
My friendly, talkative husband was turned into a careful, less talkative man, which is tragic. The lingering results have been a less intimate marriage, which is the opposite of what I desire and consequently spurs more jealous thoughts.
Fighting jealousy is an ongoing process for me. When I’m having a bad day or week, I re-listen to your No More jealousy audio books and quickly get the calming and tools I need to work on it.
Changed The Jealousy “Stories ” In Her head…
Jealousy not only effected my relationship it consumed my entire life. I would make my partner crazy from my incisive nagging and I made myself crazy from the constant ideas that I wasn’t good enough. I felt like my partner was gong to leave me one day because it happend before.
I wasdesperate and willing to try anything to make the constant wondering go away in my head. I bought the NO MORE JEALOUSY packet and began reading and listening. I found that the most help came from the chapter that said that we tell our self stories that are untrue.
We need to change those stories to the positive. So true, if I’m running around in fear that my partner will cheat does it matter that he’s not? In my head he is and it was making me crazy. I was ready to do whatever it took to change these patterns. So I changed these stories. There were techniques to identify feelings of anger and fear, and how to come to terms with those feelings.
I have to admit that not every day is perfect, I have to remind myself of these tools often. I even have a bad day now and again and might take things out on people that don’t deserve it but I have the tools now to deal with these issues quicker and with more tact.
I feel that this just wasn’t a book and audios, it was life lessons on how to deal with your feelings, and get out of negative patterns or stories that we tell ourselves.
Thank you Susie and Otto for well needed tools to deal with feelings and inadequacies.
Susie and Otto Collins
P.O. Box 14544
Columbus, Ohio 43214