What’s the Hidden Reason Why You Get So Jealous? 

masqureadeThere’s no question that you’re jealous. You can’t mistake the anxiety, nervousness, worries and doubts that you’re all too familiar with– they are jealousy rearing up and robbing you of peace and happiness.

What’s less clear is the reason why.

You may think you are feeling jealous because…

Your boyfriend hasn’t returned your text from this morning. Or your wife is having lunch with a co-worker who also happens to be a weight lifter. Or a completely different reason.

But, what if there’s more to it than that?

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10 Tech Tips to Guard Against Jealousy

We are not promoting the product in this video, but are sharing it here because it makes a great point.With so many cool apps and programs for your mobile device and computer, there are so many ways to meet a partner, connect with the one you love and keep passion alive in the long-term and you can see that in the examples with the couple in the video above.But…

Technology can be a huge jealousy trap too!

For every time a couple sends each other sweet or sexy messages, there are so many MORE times when a (different or the same) couple encounters a misunderstanding which leads to an argument which leads to distance and disconnection and all because of an unfortunate text or post.

Advances in technology are absolutely amazing….and they can also be absolutely destructive when it comes to triggering jealousy and conflict in your relationship.

Follow these 10 tech tips to keep yourself jealousy-free and your relationship happy…

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Have You Ever Felt as Jealous & Confused as THIS?

The line between what’s real and what’s imagined can become confusing, fuzzy and impossible to distinguish. This video by The Killers of their popular song,  “Mr. Brightside,” shows how difficult it can be to tell whether jealousy is causing you to see things that aren’t true OR  if you really should speak up because your partner is flirting, breaking agreements or maybe even having an affair.

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How Do You Spell Jealousy Relief?

fizzy waterWe know how painful, overwhelming and all-consuming jealousy can be. Whether it’s paralyzing fear that your love will leave you or suspicions that your partner has been lying to you and making a fool of you with another, the thoughts seem so real.

We’ve each been in that anxious place. We know the way that your peace of mind and ability to enjoy being with your partner can be wrecked with a comment, a look or a confusing situation.

Worse yet, everything you say to and do with your partner is tinged with jealousy. It feels impossible to get away from!

The big deal you make when he doesn’t text you back immediately. The ruined date because she flirts with your server. The cold bed because it’s nearly impossible to be sexually intimate when jealousy is so strong and so destructive.

Through all of the confusion, what’s clear is that it’s PAST time to do something effective about your jealousy. The questions is what?!

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Yikes! Does This SNL Parody of “The Fox” Sound Familiar?

If you haven’t yet watched the spoof of  “The Fox” that aired last weekend on Saturday Night Live, you can check it out below. Set to music and peppered with animal costumes and dance moves, this video shows a couple’s  back-and-forth over a text (and more) and it might be very similar to what regularly happens in your own love relationship or marriage.

Everything is going along fine until your partner gets a suspicious text… You accuse. Your partner denies. You spy. Your partner retreats further away from you. You’re both miserable.

Here’s the clip from SNL and be sure to look for the relationship mistakes that BOTH the man and the woman make. Post in the comments what you find…

Jealousy can come up when a promise or commitment has been broken and also when your partner is doing nothing “wrong,” but what’s happening now brings up fears and bad memories from your past. In ALL cases, jealousy makes you miserable and unable to respond effectively to the current situation or to create the relationship you’ve been craving.

Don’t make the same mistakes that the couple in this video made! Join us on Thursday, November 7th at 9:00pm Eastern / 6 Pm Pacific Time for a FREE teleseminar: “10 Greatest Relationship Mistakes Of All Time Caused By Jealousy.”  Click here to reserve your spot today.